santuá¹£á¹ÄlolupÄ daká¹£Ä
dharma-jÃ±Ä priya-satya-vÄk
apramattÄ Å›uciḥ snigdhÄ
patiá¹ tv apatitaá¹ bhajet
santuá¹£á¹Ä - always satisfied; alolupÄ - without being greedy; daká¹£Ä - very expert in serving; dharma-jÃ±Ä - fully conversant with religious principles; priya - pleasing; satya - truthful; vÄk - in speaking; apramattÄ - attentive in service to her husband; Å›uciḥ - always clean and pure; snigdhÄ - affectionate; patim - the husband; tu - but; apatitam - who is not fallen; bhajet - should worship.
According to the injunction of YÄjñavalkya, an authority on religious principles, ÄÅ›uddheḥ sampratiká¹£yo hi mahÄpÄtaka-dūṣitaḥ. One is considered contaminated by the reactions of great sinful activities when one has not been purified according to the methods of the daÅ›a-vidhÄ-saá¹skÄra. In Bhagavad-gÄ«tÄ, however, the Lord says, na mÄá¹ duá¹£ká¹›tino mÅ«á¸hÄḥ prapadyante narÄdhamÄḥ: “Those miscreants who do not surrender unto Me are the lowest of mankind.†The word narÄdhama means “nondevotee.†ŚrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu also said, yei bhaje sei baá¸a, abhakta — hÄ«na, chÄra. Anyone who is a devotee is sinless. One who is not a devotee, however, is the most fallen and condemned. It is recommended, therefore, that a chaste wife not associate with a fallen husband. A fallen husband is one who is addicted to the four principles of sinful activity — namely illicit sex, meat-eating, gambling and intoxication. Specifically, if one is not a soul surrendered to the Supreme Personality of Godhead, he is understood to be contaminated. Thus a chaste woman is advised not to agree to serve such a husband. It is not that a chaste woman should be like a slave while her husband is narÄdhama, the lowest of men. Although the duties of a woman are different from those of a man, a chaste woman is not meant to serve a fallen husband. If her husband is fallen, it is recommended that she give up his association. Giving up the association of her husband does not mean, however, that a woman should marry again and thus indulge in prostitution. If a chaste woman unfortunately marries a husband who is fallen, she should live separately from him. Similarly, a husband can separate himself from a woman who is not chaste according to the description of the Å›Ästra. The conclusion is that a husband should be a pure Vaiṣṇava and that a woman should be a chaste wife with all the symptoms described in this regard. Then both of them will be happy and make spiritual progress in Kṛṣṇa consciousness.