stanādharādi-grahaṇe
hṛt-prītāv api sambhramāt
bahiḥ krodho vyathita-vat
proktaṁ kuṭṭamitaṁ budhaiḥ
stana - breasts; adhara - lips; ādi - and so on; grahaṇe - when capturing; hṛt-prītau - satisfaction of the heart; api - even though; sambhramāt - because of respectfulness; bahiḥ - externally; krodhaḥ - anger; vyathita - aggrieved; vat - as if; proktam - called; kuṭṭamitam - the technical term kuṭṭamita; budhaiḥ - by learned scholars.
This is a quotation from the Ujjvala-nīlamaṇi (Anubhāva-prakaraṇa 44).