यदि न स्याद्गृहे माता पत्नी वा पतिदेवता ।
व्यङ्गे रथ इव प्राज्ञः को नामासीत दीनवत् ॥१५॥
na tathaitarhi rocante
gṛheṣu gṛha-sampadaḥ
yadi na syÄd gá¹›he mÄtÄ
patnÄ« vÄ pati-devatÄ
vyaá¹…ge ratha iva prÄjñaḥ
ko nÄmÄsÄ«ta dÄ«navat
na - not; tathÄ - like before; etarhi - at this moment; rocante - become pleasing; gá¹›heá¹£u - at home; gá¹›ha-sampadaḥ - all household paraphernalia; yadi - if; na - not; syÄt - there is; gá¹›he - at home; mÄtÄ - mother; patnÄ« - wife; vÄ - or; pati-devatÄ - devoted to the husband; vyaá¹…ge - without wheels; rathe - in a chariot; iva - like; prÄjñaḥ - learned man; kaḥ - who is that; nÄma - indeed; ÄsÄ«ta - would sit; dÄ«na-vat - like a poverty-stricken creature.
King Purañjana said: I do not understand why my household paraphernalia does not attract me as before. I think that if there is neither a mother nor devoted wife at home, the home is like a chariot without wheels. Where is the fool who will sit down on such an unworkable chariot?
The great politician CÄṇakya Paṇá¸ita said:
mÄtÄ yasya gá¹›he nÄsti
bhÄryÄ cÄpriya-vÄdinÄ«
araṇyaá¹ tena gantavyaá¹
yathÄraṇyaá¹ tathÄ gá¹›ham
“If a person has neither a mother nor a pleasing wife at home, he should leave home and go to the forest, because for him there is no difference between the forest and home.†The real mÄtÄ, or mother, is devotional service to the Lord, and the real patnÄ«, or devoted wife, is a wife who helps her husband execute religious principles in devotional service. These two things are required for a happy home.
Actually, a woman is supposed to be the energy of the man. Historically, in the background of every great man there is either a mother or a wife. One’s household life is very successful if he has both a good wife and mother. In such a case, everything about household affairs and all the paraphernalia in the house becomes very pleasing. Lord Caitanya MahÄprabhu had both a good mother and pleasing wife, and He was very happy at home. Nonetheless, for the benefit of the whole human race, He took sannyÄsa and left both His mother and wife. In other words, it is essential that one have both a good mother and wife in order to become perfectly happy at home. Otherwise home life has no meaning. Unless one is religiously guided by intelligence and renders devotional service unto the Supreme Personality of Godhead, his home can never become very pleasing to a saintly person. In other words, if a man has a good mother or a good wife, there is no need of his taking sannyÄsa — that is, unless it is absolutely necessary, as it was for Lord Caitanya MahÄprabhu.
