श्रीदुष्मन्त उवाच
उपपन्नमिदं सुभ्रु जातायाः कुशिकान्वये ।
स्वयं हि वृणुते राज्ञां कन्यकाः सदृशं वरम् ॥१५॥

Å›rÄ«-duá¹£manta uvÄca
upapannam idaá¹ subhru
jÄtÄyÄḥ kuÅ›ikÄnvaye
svayaá¹ hi vṛṇute rÄjñÄá¹
kanyakÄḥ sadṛśaá¹ varam

 Å›rÄ«-duá¹£mantaḥ uvÄca - King Duá¹£manta replied; upapannam - just befitting your position; idam - this; su-bhru - O ÅšakuntalÄ, with beautiful eyebrows; jÄtÄyÄḥ - because of your birth; kuÅ›ika-anvaye - in the family of ViÅ›vÄmitra; svayam - personally; hi - indeed; vṛṇute - select; rÄjñÄm - of a royal family; kanyakÄḥ - daughters; sadṛśam - on an equal level; varam - husbands.


Text

King Duá¹£manta replied: O ÅšakuntalÄ, with beautiful eyebrows, you have taken your birth in the family of the great saint ViÅ›vÄmitra, and your reception is quite worthy of your family. Aside from this, the daughters of a king generally select their own husbands.

Purport

In her reception of MahÄrÄja Duá¹£manta, ÅšakuntalÄ clearly said, “Your Majesty may stay here, and you may accept whatever reception I can offer.†Thus she indicated that she wanted MahÄrÄja Duá¹£manta as her husband. As far as MahÄrÄja Duá¹£manta was concerned, he desired ÅšakuntalÄ as his wife from the very beginning, as soon as he saw her, so the agreement to unite as husband and wife was natural. To induce ÅšakuntalÄ to accept the marriage, MahÄrÄja Duá¹£manta reminded her that as the daughter of a king she could select her husband in an open assembly. In the history of Ä€ryan civilization there have been many instances in which famous princesses have selected their husbands in open competitions. For example, it was in such a competition that SÄ«tÄdevÄ« accepted Lord RÄmacandra as her husband and that DraupadÄ« accepted Arjuna, and there are many other instances. So marriage by agreement or by selecting one’s own husband in an open competition is allowed. There are eight kinds of marriage, of which marriage by agreement is called gÄndharva marriage. Generally the parents select the husband or wife for their daughter or son, but gÄndharva marriage takes place by personal selection. Still, although marriage by personal selection or by agreement took place in the past, we find no such thing as divorce by disagreement. Of course, divorce by disagreement took place among low-class men, but marriage by agreement was found even in the very highest classes, especially in the royal ká¹£atriya families. MahÄrÄja Duá¹£manta’s acceptance of ÅšakuntalÄ as his wife was sanctioned by Vedic culture. How the marriage took place is described in the next verse.