patiá¹ prayÄntaá¹ subalasya putrÄ«
pati-vratÄ cÄnujagÄma sÄdhvÄ«
himÄlayaá¹ nyasta-daṇá¸a-prahará¹£aá¹
manasvinÄm iva sat samprahÄraḥ
patim - her husband; prayÄntam - while leaving home; subalasya - of King Subala; putrÄ« - the worthy daughter; pati-vratÄ - devoted to her husband; ca - also; anujagÄma - followed; sÄdhvÄ« - the chaste; himÄlayam - towards the Himalaya Mountains; nyasta-daṇá¸a - one who has accepted the rod of the renounced order; prahará¹£am - object of delight; manasvinÄm - of the great fighters; iva - like; sat - legitimate; samprahÄraḥ - good lashing.
SaubalinÄ«, or GÄndhÄrÄ«, daughter of King Subala and wife of King Dhá¹›tarÄá¹£á¹ra, was ideal as a wife devoted to her husband. The Vedic civilization especially prepares chaste and devoted wives, of whom GÄndhÄrÄ« is one amongst many mentioned in history. Laká¹£mÄ«jÄ« SÄ«tÄdevÄ« was also a daughter of a great king, but she followed her husband, Lord RÄmacandra, into the forest. Similarly, as a woman GÄndhÄrÄ« could have remained at home or at her father’s house, but as a chaste and gentle lady she followed her husband without consideration. Instructions for the renounced order of life were imparted to Dhá¹›tarÄá¹£á¹ra by Vidura, and GÄndhÄrÄ« was by the side of her husband. But he did not ask her to follow him because he was at that time fully determined, like a great warrior who faces all kinds of dangers in the battlefield. He was no longer attracted to so-called wife or relatives, and he decided to start alone, but as a chaste lady GÄndhÄrÄ« decided to follow her husband till the last moment. MahÄrÄja Dhá¹›tarÄá¹£á¹ra accepted the order of vÄnaprastha, and at this stage the wife is allowed to remain as a voluntary servitor, but in the sannyÄsa stage no wife can stay with her former husband. A sannyÄsÄ« is considered to be a dead man civilly, and therefore the wife becomes a civil widow without connection with her former husband. MahÄrÄja Dhá¹›tarÄá¹£á¹ra did not deny his faithful wife, and she followed her husband at her own risk.
The sannyÄsÄ«s accept a rod as the sign of the renounced order of life. There are two types of sannyÄsÄ«s. Those who follow the MÄyÄvÄdÄ« philosophy, headed by ÅšrÄ«pÄda Åšaá¹…karÄcÄrya, accept only one rod (eka-daṇá¸a), but those who follow the Vaiṣṇavite philosophy accept three combined rods (tri-daṇá¸a). The MÄyÄvÄdÄ« sannyÄsÄ«s are ekadaṇá¸i-svÄmÄ«s, whereas the Vaiṣṇava sannyÄsÄ«s are known as tridaṇá¸i-svÄmÄ«s, or more distinctly, tridaṇá¸i-gosvÄmÄ«s, in order to be distinguished from the MÄyÄvÄdÄ« philosophers. The ekadaṇá¸i-svÄmÄ«s are mostly fond of the HimÄlayas, but the Vaiṣṇava sannyÄsÄ«s are fond of Vá¹›ndÄvana and PurÄ«. The Vaiṣṇava sannyÄsÄ«s are narottamas, whereas the MÄyÄvÄdÄ« sannyÄsÄ«s are dhÄ«ras. MahÄrÄja Dhá¹›tarÄá¹£á¹ra was advised to follow the dhÄ«ras because at that stage it was difficult for him to become a narottama.