dadÄti pratigá¹›hṇÄti
guhyam ÄkhyÄti pá¹›cchati
bhuá¹…kte bhojayate caiva
á¹£aá¸-vidhaá¹ prÄ«ti-laká¹£aṇam

 dadÄti - gives charity; pratigá¹›hṇÄti - accepts in return; guhyam - confidential topics; ÄkhyÄti - explains; pá¹›cchati - enquires; bhuá¹…kte - eats; bhojayate - feeds; ca - also; eva - certainly; á¹£aá¹­-vidham - six kinds; prÄ«ti - of love; laká¹£aṇam - symptoms.


Text

Offering gifts in charity, accepting charitable gifts, revealing one’s mind in conï¬dence, inquiring conï¬dentially, accepting prasÄda and offering prasÄda are the six symptoms of love shared by one devotee and another.

Purport

In this verse ÅšrÄ«la RÅ«pa GosvÄmÄ« explains how to perform devotional activities in the association of other devotees. There are six kinds of activities: (1) giving charity to the devotees, (2) accepting from the devotees whatever they may offer in return, (3) opening one’s mind to the devotees, (4) inquiring from them about the conï¬dential service of the Lord, (5) honoring prasÄda, or spiritual food, given by the devotees, and (6) feeding the devotees with prasÄda. An experienced devotee explains, and an inexperienced devotee learns from him. This is guhyam ÄkhyÄti pá¹›cchati. When a devotee distributes prasÄda, remnants of food offered to the Supreme Personality of Godhead, in order to maintain our spirit of devotional service we must accept this prasÄda as the Lord’s grace received through the pure devotees. We should also invite pure devotees to our home, offer them prasÄda and be prepared to please them in all respects. This is called bhuá¹…kte bhojayate caiva.

Even in ordinary social activities, these six types of dealings between two loving friends are absolutely necessary. For instance, when one businessman wishes to contact another businessman he arranges a feast in a hotel, and over the feast openly expresses what he wishes to do. He then inquires from his business friend how he should act, and sometimes presents are exchanged. Thus whenever there is a dealing of prÄ«ti, or love in intimate dealings, these six activities are executed. In the previous verse, ÅšrÄ«la RÅ«pa GosvÄmÄ« advised that one should renounce worldly association and keep company with the devotees (saá¹…ga-tyÄgÄt sato vá¹›tteḥ). The International Society for Krishna Consciousness has been established to facilitate these six kinds of loving exchanges between devotees. This Society was started single-handedly, but because people are coming forward and dealing with the give-and-take policy, the Society is now expanding all over the world. We are glad that people are donating very liberally to the development of the Society’s activities, and people are also eagerly accepting whatever humble contribution we are giving them in the shape of books and magazines dealing strictly with the subject matter of Kṛṣṇa consciousness. We sometimes hold Hare Kṛṣṇa festivals and invite life members and friends to participate in the feasting by accepting prasÄda. Although most of our members come from the higher rungs of society, they nonetheless come and take whatever little prasÄda we are able to offer them. Sometimes the members and supporters inquire very conï¬dentially about the methods of performing devotional service, and we try to explain this. In this way our Society is successfully spreading all over the world, and the intelligentsia of all countries is gradually appreciating our Kṛṣṇa conscious activities. The life of the Kṛṣṇa conscious society is nourished by these six types of loving exchange among the members; therefore people must be given the chance to associate with the devotees of ISKCON, because simply by reciprocating in the six ways mentioned above an ordinary man can fully revive his dormant Kṛṣṇa consciousness. In Bhagavad-gÄ«tÄ (2.62) it is stated, saá¹…gÄt sañjÄyate kÄmaḥ: one’s desires and ambitions develop according to the company one keeps. It is often said that a man is known by his company, and if an ordinary man associates with devotees, he will certainly develop his dormant Kṛṣṇa consciousness. The understanding of Kṛṣṇa consciousness is innate in every living entity, and it is already developed to some extent when the living entity takes a human body. It is said in the Caitanya-caritÄmá¹›ta (Madhya 22.107):

nitya-siddha kṛṣṇa-prema ‘sÄdhya’ kabhu naya
Å›ravaṇÄdi-Å›uddha-citte karaye udaya

“Pure love for Kṛṣṇa is eternally established in the hearts of living entities. It is not something to be gained from another source. When the heart is puriï¬ed by hearing and chanting, the living entity naturally awakens.†Since Kṛṣṇa consciousness is inherent in every living entity, everyone should be given a chance to hear about Kṛṣṇa. Simply by hearing and chanting – Å›ravaṇaá¹ kÄ«rtanam – one’s heart is directly puriï¬ed, and one’s original Kṛṣṇa consciousness is immediately awakened. Kṛṣṇa consciousness is not artiï¬cially imposed upon the heart, it is already there. When one chants the holy name of the Supreme Personality of Godhead, the heart is cleansed of all mundane contamination. In the ï¬rst stanza of His ÅšrÄ« Åšiká¹£Äṣṭaka, Lord ÅšrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu says:

ceto-darpaṇa-mÄrjanam bhava-mahÄ-dÄvÄgni-nirvÄpaṇaá¹
Å›reyaḥ-kairava-candrikÄ-vitaraṇaá¹ vidyÄ-vadhÅ«-jÄ«vanam
ÄnandÄmbudhi-vardhanaá¹ prati-padaá¹ pÅ«rṇÄmá¹›tÄsvÄdanaá¹
sarvÄtma-snapanaá¹ paraá¹ vijayate Å›rÄ«-kṛṣṇa-saá¹…kÄ«rtanam

“All glories to the ÅšrÄ« Kṛṣṇa saá¹…kÄ«rtana, which cleanses the heart of all the dust accumulated for years and extinguishes the ï¬re of conditional life, of repeated birth and death. This saá¹…kÄ«rtana movement is the prime benediction for humanity at large because it spreads the rays of the benediction moon. It is the life of all transcendental knowledge. It increases the ocean of transcendental bliss, and it enables us to fully taste the nectar for which we are always anxious.â€

Not only is the chanter of the mahÄ-mantra puriï¬ed, but the heart of anyone who happens to hear the transcendental vibration of Hare Kṛṣṇa, Hare Kṛṣṇa, Kṛṣṇa Kṛṣṇa, Hare Hare/ Hare RÄma, Hare RÄma, RÄma RÄma, Hare Hare is also cleansed. Even the souls embodied in lower animals, insects, trees and other species of life also become puriï¬ed and prepared to become fully Kṛṣṇa conscious simply by hearing the transcendental vibration. This was explained by ṬhÄkura HaridÄsa when Caitanya MahÄprabhu inquired from him how living entities lower than human beings can be delivered from material bondage. HaridÄsa ṬhÄkura said that the chanting of the holy names is so powerful that even if one chants in the remotest parts of the jungle, the trees and animals will advance in Kṛṣṇa consciousness simply by hearing the vibration. This was actually proved by ÅšrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu Himself when He passed through the forest of JhÄrikhaṇá¸a. At that time the tigers, snakes, deer and all other animals abandoned their natural animosity and began chanting and dancing in saá¹…kÄ«rtana. Of course, we cannot imitate the activities of ÅšrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu, but we should follow in His footsteps. We are not powerful enough to enchant the lower animals such as tigers, snakes, cats and dogs or entice them to dance, but by chanting the holy names of the Lord we can actually convert many people throughout the world to Kṛṣṇa consciousness. Contributing or distributing the holy name of the Lord is a sublime example of contributing or giving charity (the dadÄti principle). By the same token, one must also follow the pratigá¹›hṇÄti principle and be willing and ready to receive the transcendental gift. One should inquire about the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement and open his mind in order to understand the situation of this material world. Thus the guhyam ÄkhyÄti pá¹›cchati principles can be served.

The members of the International Society for Krishna Consciousness invite the Society’s members and supporters to dine with them when they hold love feasts in all their branches every Sunday. Many interested people come to honor prasÄda, and whenever possible they invite members of the Society to their homes and feed them sumptuously with prasÄda. In this way both the members of the Society and the general public are beneï¬ted. People should give up the company of so-called yogÄ«s, jñÄnÄ«s, karmÄ«s and philanthropists because their association can beneï¬t no one. If one really wants to attain the goal of human life, he should associate with devotees of the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement because it is the only movement that teaches one how to develop love of God. Religion is the special function of human society, and it constitutes the distinction between human society and animal society. Animal society has no church, mosque or religious system. In all parts of the world, however downtrodden human society may be, there is some system of religion. Even tribal aborigines in the jungles also have a system of religion. When a religious system develops and turns into love of God, it is successful. As stated in the First Canto of ÅšrÄ«mad-BhÄgavatam (1.2.6):

sa vai puá¹sÄá¹ paro dharmo
yato bhaktir adhoká¹£aje
ahaituky apratihatÄ
yayÄtmÄ suprasÄ«dati

“The supreme occupation [dharma] for all humanity is that by which men can attain to loving devotional service unto the transcendent Lord. Such devotional service must be unmotivated and uninterrupted in order to completely satisfy the self.â€

If the members of human society actually want peace of mind, tranquility and friendly relations between men and nations, they must follow the Kṛṣṇa conscious system of religion, by which they can develop their dormant love for Kṛṣṇa, the Supreme Personality of Godhead. As soon as people do so, their minds will immediately be ï¬lled with peace and tranquility.

In this regard, ÅšrÄ«la BhaktisiddhÄnta SarasvatÄ« ṬhÄkura warns all devotees engaged in broadcasting the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement not to speak to the impersonalist MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s who are always determined to oppose such theistic movements. The world is full of MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s and atheists, and the political parties of the world take advantage of MÄyÄvÄda and other atheistic philosophies to promote materialism. Sometimes they even back a strong party to oppose the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement. The MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s and other atheists do not want the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement to develop because it educates people in God consciousness. Such is the policy of the atheists. There is no beneï¬t in feeding a snake milk and bananas because the snake will never be satisï¬ed. On the contrary, by taking milk and bananas the snake simply becomes more poisonous (kevalaá¹ viá¹£a-vardhanam). If a snake is given milk to drink, its poison simply increases. For a similar reason, we should not disclose our minds to the serpent MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s and karmÄ«s. Such disclosures will never help. It is best to avoid association with them completely and never ask them about anything conï¬dential because they cannot give good advice. Nor should we extend invitations to MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s and atheists nor accept their invitations, for by such intimate intermingling we may become affected by their atheistic mentality (saá¹…gÄt sañjÄyate kÄmaḥ). It is the negative injunction of this verse that we should refrain from giving anything to or accepting anything from the MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s and atheists. ÅšrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu has also warned, viá¹£ayÄ«ra anna khÄile duṣṭa haya mana: “By eating food prepared by worldly people, one’s mind becomes wicked.†Unless one is very advanced, he is unable to utilize everyone’s contribution to further the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement; therefore on principle one should not accept charity from the MÄyÄvÄdÄ«s or atheists. Indeed, ÅšrÄ« Caitanya MahÄprabhu has forbidden devotees to associate even with ordinary men who are too addicted to material sense gratiï¬cation.

The conclusion is that we should always keep company with devotees, observe the regulative devotional principles, follow in the footsteps of the ÄcÄryas and in full obedience carry out the orders of the spiritual master. In this way we shall be able to develop our devotional service and dormant Kṛṣṇa consciousness. The devotee who is neither a neophyte nor a mahÄ-bhÄgavata (a greatly advanced devotee) but is within the middle status of devotional service is expected to love the Supreme Personality of Godhead, make friends with the devotees, show favor to the ignorant and reject the jealous and demoniac. In this verse there is brief mention of the process of making loving transactions with the Supreme Personality of Godhead and making friends with the devotees. According to the dadÄti principle, an advanced devotee is supposed to spend at least ï¬fty percent of his income on the service of the Lord and His devotees. ÅšrÄ«la RÅ«pa GosvÄmÄ« has set such an example in his life. When he decided to retire, he distributed ï¬fty percent of his life’s earnings to Kṛṣṇa’s service and twenty-ï¬ve percent to his relatives and kept twenty-ï¬ve percent for personal emergencies. This example should be followed by all devotees. Whatever one’s income, ï¬fty percent should be spent on behalf of Kṛṣṇa and His devotees, and this will fulï¬ll the demands of dadÄti.

In the next verse, ÅšrÄ«la RÅ«pa GosvÄmÄ« informs us what kind of Vaiṣṇava should be selected as a friend and how Vaiṣṇavas should be served.Â